Why do couples stop having sex

Is it what you think it is?

Is it Wednesday already? Welcome back to Life Intelligence. A huge thank you to my paid subscribers who support this passion project. Four new people joined the ranks this week. It may sound small but makes my heart feel big! Love you, all!

So, why do couples stop having sex? Sure, you want to know! Hopefully, not because you are in a sexless relationship, NOT by choice or necessity. Sex – what kind, how, and how much should be a choice satisfactory to both partners. Some may not care for that anymore. No judgment, no matter which way you swing. 

But when it comes to sex, many do feel shame and judgment. Men, when turned down frequently, consider it a rejection of their manhood. Women, on the other hand, worry that they are not attractive and desirable and correlate it with aging. Few share the truth with friends and family. Some try to resolve the situation by stepping out, looking around for extracurricular activities, porn, or whatever they can get for 20 bucks around the corner.

It doesn't have to be that way, at least not always. I'll try to go fast through the boring parts and spend more time on the juicy ones.